Up those standers & expectations

Please realize that when you allow a man to not financially or emotionally take care of his kids . It doesn’t make you a better mom than a woman who gets child support. It doesn’t make you a stronger or better woman. When you say “we don’t need him “that is not true you may not need him but those kids do. They need a father to look up too . Allowing a man to be a dead beat doesn’t increase your greatness.