Normalize being overwhelmed as a parent, wife,husband and employee

I know I have seen on social media too many times people shaming a mother or father for being overwhelmed with their children. Why does society make parents feel bad for speaking up and admitting their children irritated their soul today. They say that they are fed up for the day at a emotional breaking point because their boss was an A-hole today, the counter is a mess AGAIN, dinner needs to be made, bills need to be paid, and guess what they have only had 3 hours of sleep. But the minute they admit that here comes all the “Karen’s” … they didn’t ask to be born… no one told you to have kids… I know how it is to grow up without a mothers/fathers love you should be ashamed of yourself.. Not once offering a warm support of understanding, a recommendation of what helps them get through a bad week.. No way that can’t happen because I need the reassurance that I’m a better parent, wife, husband, worker than that person. Now I can walk with my head held high and tell people how awful This person is and thank god I’m not them .. ugh can you believe that Michele gave little Abby leftovers 3 nights in a row that is absolutely disgusting. We’ll miss perfect why don’t you drop off some homemade food off to support your fellow mom .. #dobetter # nooneisperfect #supporteachother